I don’t normally take part in challenges, my muse is too slippery for that, but when Alethea Kehas over at Not Tomatoes challenged me to write about the word joy it seemed serendipitous, because it is a word that I’ve noticed myself using increasingly often. Thank you to Alethea for inviting me to take part in the #3.2.1 Me challenge, which involves writing about the chosen word and including two quotes, before nominating three others to take part. You can visit Alethea here to find out what she made of the word inspiration, but for now, here is a brief joyful interlude.
The ridge’s bosses and hummocks sprout bulging from its side; the whole mountain looms miles closer; the light warms and reddens; the bare forest folds and pleats itself like living protoplasm before my eyes, like a running chart, a wildly scrawling oscillograph on the present moment. The air cools; the puppy’s skin is hot. I am more alive than all the world. (Annie Dillard – Pilgrim at Tinker Creek)
Joy has always seemed to me an extravagant word. Beyond contentment, beyond happiness. A word for unbridled feeling, for ecstasy. It seems fit only for big spectacles and life-changing events. It is not an everyday word. Strangely, it’s a word I often come across in the negative: ‘no joy’ or a sarcastic ‘deep joy’ to describe someone’s negative feelings about something. The positive phrases that include the word, such as ‘jump for joy’, ‘pride and joy’ or ‘full of the joys of spring’ are so diluted that they no longer have any real meaning. Joy in its truest sense seems a word mainly used for Christmas. And yet I find myself noticing the word more often than I ever have and I wonder why I didn’t feel it was appropriate before.
For me, joy isn’t confined to spectacle or achievement. It is something I most often experience in those small moment of life that we come to realise are the big moments. It isn’t about the satisfaction of something gained or done well. It isn’t about an item checked off a bucket list or an ambition finally reached. Yes, there is delight in those moments, but for me, joy is something both smaller and deeper than that.
Joy is the delight I feel when I hear my dog dreaming and watch the twitch of his nose and paws. It is the tilt of his head and the wag of his tail. Joy is in the wild whip of the wind and the teem of rain. It is the exuberance of blossom and the shimmer of autumn leaves; the scent of the sea and the crash of a wave on the shore. Joy is the stab of excitement when I witness the wanderings of a badger or the dart of a kingfisher.
Joy is the feeling of awe at being alive and able to experience this one moment just for you. When the earth seems to shimmer, to lay our her wares and say, here, this is what it is all about. It is the moment described by Annie Dillard of being so clearly in the present that no matter whether you are at a gas station (in her case) or in the most astounding wilderness, you feel completely alive and completely connected.
In September dawns I hardly breathe – I am an image in a ball of glass. The world is suspended there, and I in it. (Nan Shepherd – The Living Mountain)
I can feel joy even when I am sad, because, for me, it isn’t about happiness. It’s about awe and it’s about connection to the earth. When I feel that I am a part of this earth, when my skin seems to tremble from being in the world, then I feel joy. Then I know that my daily worries don’t matter, that what does matter is being a part of this. I am coming to grips with joy. Coming to know that it is a word that does fit into my world after all. It isn’t too extravagant, because there is nothing more extravagant than this world. It is not a word only to be sung out in carols or written on cards at just one time of year, it is a word for every season and the quiet wonders that each one contains.
I’ll pass on the challenge to: Jeanne at, Stilladreamer, Luda at PlantsandBeyond and Pat at Equipsblog but you are under absolutely no obligation to accept. If you do, the word is ‘vision’. Write about the word, including two quotes and pass on the challenge to three other bloggers.